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Keeping emotions in check during divorce

On Behalf of | Mar 4, 2022 | Divorce |

In many cases, the divorce process is a stressful and emotionally challenging time for families. As such, parties can let their emotions get the better of them throughout the process, but doing so can have detrimental effects on the final outcome. Here are a few tips to keep emotions in check as spouses seek to end their marriages in West Virginia. 

  • Children should be top priority — Divorcing couples with children will want to keep the best interests of their kids at the forefront during all custody and support proceedings. Watching their parents break up is a hard thing to go through for many young people, and parents should reiterate their love for their children and assure them the divorce was not their fault. 
  • Do not seek revenge against the other spouse — Particularly in cases where the divorce was precipitated by infidelity, one spouse may seek to get back at the other or make him or her pay for their indiscretion or other actions. However, using these tactics rarely help and may actually hurt the petitioning spouse in the long run. 
  • Do not fight every battle — In contentious divorces, spouses typically try to get as much as possible from the marital estate. However, spouses must learn which aspects are the most important and only fight for their fair share instead of trying to get more than they deserve. Although emotions are running high, divorce is still a legal process governed by laws and regulations. As such, spouses should only expect to receive an equitable distribution of assets. 

No one says divorce is easy, even under the most amicable circumstances. However, spouses must enter the process with the mindset of a business transaction and not let their emotions dictate their actions. By working with an experienced family law attorney in West Virginia, a divorcing spouse can gain a full understanding of his or her rights and options while working closely with the lawyer to obtain the most favorable outcome possible.